September 21, 2008

The last few days have been about bonding. The times that we had to go back for adoption registration and notary were stressful for David as he thought he was going back to the orphanage. Periodically he would have a tantrum and show that he can be very strong physically. Careful and patient time-ins allowed him to see that we would be in charge and he would still remain with us. David was amazed by the 5 star hotel that we stayed at, Yuda Palace Hotel. Looking at a street map we realized that he was found only a few streets away from the hotel. Despite his initial bonding process, he quickly adapted to getting the attention of wait staff by clapping his hands. Bathrooms with him were an adventure in themselves. His curiosity with Western toilets let to some fun moments with urinal cakes and trying to squat on the top of the toilet seat instead of sitting.We went to the Henan Provincial Museum to view beautiful artifacts. David insisted on posing in front of mny items, expalining that when he was younger he lived in the palaces. Despite his doubtful 'royal lineage' he and his friend Min showed genuine interset in the tour and asked questions. The people that we have met here have been gracious, intelligent and helpful which has eased our transition. On the 19th we flew to Guangzhou. David did quite well on the plane except for his dislike of seatbelts. He told us he's flown 2 times before-not true! We are staying at the White Swan which is a very Americanized province because of all the adoption consulate work done here. David asked us to purchase sunglasses to be like Gary, so he could 'see to read' the menu. He hangs them on the front of his shirt as well. David has been very affectionate with us both, smothering us with kisses. Since he had a friend at the orphange who was deaf, that had been adopted out, David is pretty fluent in sign, easing our communication. Quite the jokester, he tells shopkeepers that he is deaf and can't speak and can only have ice cream.He continues to amaze us with his fine motor skills, his intelligence and cleverness.He told the guide that he doesn't understand English, but his brother will teach him.